I have marriage problems

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  Question i need your help desparately. very desperately. i have marriage problems. basically my daughter goes to islamic school where they held a fayre. i asked my husband if i could put a stall up. he refused. so i said ok. my cousin became interested and so i got her a stall. my husband was in pakistan. when i phoned him to tell him i am going to fayre with mum and children he said is your cousin coming. i said yes. he then said why … [Read more...]

Can a girl’s photo be shown to a non mahram male

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  Question Can a girl's photo be shown to a non mahram male with the idea that if suitable to him details can be worked out re marriage.  This is at the very inception. Answer Muhtaram / Muhtaramah , In the name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful Assalaamu `alaykum waRahmatullahi Wabarakatuh It is permissible for a boy to see the face of a girl in a case of a prospective marriage. However, due to the deceptive nature of … [Read more...]

What is the punishment for those who hurt others feelings and reject proposals because of physical features?

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Question Aslam-u-Alykum I was in a relationship with a Muslim man a few months ago. We wanted to make our feelings halal for each other so we decided to tell our parents about our intentions to get married. My family is Pakistani and his family is Indian. Alhamdulillah my parents agreed to get us married however his parents rejected me several times. First I was rejected because I am a Pakistani. Then I was rejected due to my physical … [Read more...]

If possible I would like to know the meaning of the following names

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Question Assalaam-u-alaikum If possible I would like to know the meaning of the following names LUTFIA DILNAWAAZ DILSHAAD Answer Muhtaram / Muhtaramah , In the name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful Assalaamu `alaykum waRahmatullahi Wabarakatuh 1) The name "Latafa" (لطافة) means "gracefulness", "kindness", "benevolence". The name "Latifa" (لطيفة) means "gentle", "kind", "pretty", "charming". (Hans Wehr Dictionary … [Read more...]

Verification of Ahaadith on fasting in the month of Muharram

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  Verification of Ahaadith on fasting in the month of Muharram   Q:Why mostly hanafi people, mostly their scholars spread moudoo hadith? Like fast in month of Muharam which is equal to a month? They quote this hadith: وعن ابن عباس رضي الله عنهما قال قال رسول الله صلى الله عليه و سلم من صام يوم عرفة كان له كفارة سنتين ومن صام يوما من المحرم فله بكل يوم ثلاثون يوما (مجمع الزوائد رقم 5244). Which is moudoo and they also tell to … [Read more...]

Fasting on the 9th and 10th or 10th and 11th of Muharram

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Fasting on the 9th and 10th or 10th and 11th of Muharram     Q: I was recently informed by a friend that there is no need to fast on the 9th or 11th of Muharram together with the 10th in this era, as the element of tashabbuh (emulation) of the jews is no longer found. Is this correct? A: Rasulullah (Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam) commanded the ummah to fast on either the 9th and 10th or the 10th and 11th of Muharram, in order … [Read more...]